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With a decades-long career in television, including his own show, Steve Harvey has conquered the media world. But during his rocket-like shot to the top, Harvey had his share of relationships and gained a lot of experience with women.

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Now he's turning this experience into sage advice for the fairer sex. Check out an excerpt of the book below, then head to the "GMA" Library for other great reads. One of those that stood out most was the lifestyle of a famous and well-regarded celebrity, whose name I'm just going to go ahead and keep to myself.

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But this much I will tell you: I mean this man Is think like a man a real book surrounded by gorgeous women. And I was amazed at this because I couldn't understand how one person could get all of these fine women like this. I mean, he wasn't the best-looking dude in the business—there were others with more money, more prestige, and certainly better looks than him. Still, he was a master at keeping a stack of solid tens at all times, with commitments to none of them.

I'd heard about these superplayers with supermodels on their arms and everything, but when I saw it up close, I was amazed at how the actual connections could happen, and especially why these women stayed with this guy, knowing that they were one of many hanging on his arm. So I sat down and talked to this guy and a bunch of other men who were in similar "relationships" and asked them point-blank: How do you keep these women coming back for more?

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And each one, including the most notorious of the bunch, laughed, shook his head, and said pretty much the same thing: It just is what it is. And each time I asked them what could have made it different for the women they were with, almost down to the letter, each one of those men said the same thing: They don't ask, each one said, because they think they're going to run me off, so I get to just string them along.

And the one celebrity who seemed to be the master of all of this said, quite simply, "I have enough of them so that when I get the questions, I don't have to answer because for every one woman who asks, I have two more who won't. But that's how it is. And this kind of thinking from guys isn't just happening in celebrity circles, trust me. Some of them have as many women as some of my celebrity friends, and the women they run game on are just as fine as some of the supermodels clinging to the arms of stars.

But if you're a woman on a string of three or thirty-three, you're still on a string. And both you and I know that's not a good place to be. Your objective is to avoid being on the string. The first step, I think, is to get over the fear of losing a man by confronting him. Just stop being afraid, already.

The most successful people in this world recognize that taking chances to get what they want is much more productive than Is think like a man a real book around being too scared to take a shot.

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The same philosophy can easily be applied to dating: Because that fear can trip you up every time; all too many of you let the guy get away with disrespecting you, putting in minimal effort and holding out on the commitment to you because you're afraid he's going to walk away and you'll be alone again.

We recognize this and play on it, big time. My sons will do it the same way because they can and there will be women who allow it to happen.


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