If a girl is into you, she will show you her attraction through certain behaviors and body language. Most men are clueless about those signals.
But actually, it is quite easy to interpret them. Most women enjoy being looked at by an interesting man. It gives us confirmation that all the work that went into looking good paid off. But most women tend to ignore their feelings and look away immediately. This has nothing to do with disinterest!
We also feel uncertain when meeting someone interesting. And we also want to avoid coming across as easy at all costs. An interested woman will give you feedback in the form of behavioral changes — subtle cues to communicate with you on a non-verbal level. Every girl behaves differently.
Keep an eye on her and watch her movements and gesticulations. A soft gaze will give you all the information you need. Maybe you are at a club, in a library or even in a supermarket.
If she is looking you directly in the eyes, she wants to get to know you. Use eye contact to flirt with women! If you notice that a woman is looking you directly in your eyes, do the same for a few seconds.
Then look away and try to find her eye-contact again later. When you look at her, try to smile with your eyes.
Bring yourself in a positive mood. Think about her, how her voice or how her giggling will sound. How her skin feels like, how she smells or even how her lips will feel. Repeat finding her eye-contact for three or four times.
Meanwhile enjoy the situation and have fun! Eye-contact builds a connection between two people without talking.
With this technique, you build up tension. Both of you will feel it. After the third or fourth time, you should smile at her.
If she smiles back — go over to her immediately! If she knows you can see her, she might use a straw to drink her cocktail. Or she is licks her lips or bites her bottom lip. All of these are signs that she is flirting with you. When she is talking a lot, she feels good by your side. Laughing is also a clear sign! If a woman likes a man, she tends to laugh more and louder than usually.
Everything is funny, whether you are joking or not. All of you have seen this before: A woman is talking to a man and twirls her hair constantly.
There are even more variations of playing with hair. Some women always shake their head a little.
Some run their fingers through their hair or try to look more mysterious by ruffling their hair. Pay attention to her position. Interested women want to be closer to you.
Her whole body will turn towards you, so she can see and hear you better. When you sit at a table with her, she will often sit with her elbows on the table holding up her head to be nearer.
When you stand at the bar, she wants to be as close as possible. Every message you give her or she is giving you will be the perfect opportunity for her to stand closer to you. A woman who is interested ignores personal space.